Hey There 😉

I am Brenda Njoki, a twenty-something year-old girl who is in love with growth in different areas in life and your go-to friend for all things related to social skills and personal growth.

Well, the first thing you should know about me is that I am a crazy daydreamer, delusional if you may. I have been creating scenarios in my head ever since I was a little girl, and to this date, I have never found the antidote, haha!

I love to write and daydream (of course) in my free time. I try cooking every now and then, and I am obsessed with nature. Seriously, I find it to be my escape, and to me, it is a daydreamer’s paradise. It is so easy to create scenarios in my head when I am out in the sun and feeling the wind on my skin.

I try to be healthy and eat (and sometimes grow them) my vegetables and fruits but I know how to enjoy a damn good chocolate cake (and chocolates, well, and many other sweet treats…), the sweetness of life.

When I am not feeling my best, I lay in bed and occasionally go to the window to watch some birds (watching them preen each other is soothing for some reason). This always uplifts my mood and gets me back on track.

I did not get to where I am through sheer luck or magic. I had to work on my abilities, and I have learned so much in the process. I was able to create an open mind to many things and grow as an individual. Through this blog, I aim to inspire you to do the same.

I am here to hold your hand as you become a better YOU, guide you toward a healthier mindset, friendships, and more, and motivate you to do your best.

I truly believe that if you desire something, whatever it is, your mind, heart, effort, and habits shape the path to reaching the destination. You are the CREATOR of your own experiences and life. You can do anything- literally anything you set your mind to.

In the wise words of Henry David Thoreau,

Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you’ve imagined…

I believe that being the best version of yourself is very attainable. It happened for me, and it can for you, too. (P.S. The learning never stops.)

Let’s learn and grow together!

See you around,

Njoki xoxo